Why are you angry all the time?

I don't know if it's just me or everybody else also is going crazy by the moment. I just don't know why am I so angry all the time. 

What is this tiny feeling of frustration that keeps gnawing at the back of my head every moment in the form of small sense of pulsation in my head?

Any small incident of confrontation or disagreement, to which I should ideally be indifferent or shrug off, boils my blood and I feel as if someone has done a grave injustice to me. 

I don't know why I want the world to run according to me and slight deviation is enough to make me go crazy as if they don't understand how silly they are to not pay heed to my advice or comprehend my perspective.

I cannot be right all the time then why do I feel the need to make everyone play according to my rules and do everything as per my wish. I don't know what this feeling is or how I got this way. I don't know how to make me understand that not everybody will follow my advice or will act as per my wish.

I am simply clueless how to increase my patience and tolerance level. I cannot snap at minor disagreements because everybody is unique and has his or her perspective and way of thinking. I need to learn to accommodate other's opinions and respect their intelligence.

Just because the other person does not understand my point of view, does not mean that he or she is any less than me or is simply dumb. People are entitled to their opinions and and I cannot enforce my point of view just like I would not like anybody else to impose his or her way of thinking on me.

So please stop being so crazy and mad all the time. As long as I am alive and live in a society, I will interact with people, at home, in office and everywhere else. And every interaction will lead to some differences or disagreements. This is normal, this is human. Please stop thinking that anybody who does not agree with your opinion is an idiot. That's just not the way this world works. The world will not adjust or change as per your wish, you need to learn to be more accommodative, more tolerant, more patient and more human.

The world does not work in a binary mode of good and bad. It is grey and you cannot be rigid with this. Because if you stick to your guns and differentiate everything between just good and bad then you will be frustrated most of the times because you will labeling things, people and everything. You will be judging all the time and with this judgement will come emotions, emotions that will just not let you relax and let the things be.

So let the world be, let the things be, let the people be and stop judging and overthinking.




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